Positivity Is NOT a Catch Phrase

It is not just about thinking positive and whoosh everything that was every upsetting in your life magically disappears.  If it were that simple that we all just said, "keep smiling, turn that frown upside down now"...Then life would be very simple wouldn't it be? It would almost be to simple, to boring and not many learned lessons to be had.  No, Thinking positive is much more about Being a positive soul from inside out.  Not just talking empty words of positive stimulation.  But being that positive force that not only touches you and helps you through many obstacles....also touching the lives of others.  Creating a life force within you that radiates somehow, big or small onto everyone you meet.  In so, creating a change within them, that motivates them too to not only talk of nice things, but be GREAT even in any adversity.

I believe today, people throw around the Positive message to easily where now I see that it is becoming a HOAX...When in reality, it is an all knowing that Everyday, is a great day, Everyday there is much good and not much bad, Everyday getting up excited even just to go to the Dentist.  Everyday is worthwhile and somehow a lesson or two come out of each day all through Positive Action.

I find it easier to live in the Light of Positivity, but not all must rely on such a paradigm.  No you don't have to believe, of course not.  It really did work for me and for many others I know and hey, much easier to get through the day, week, month, without being bothered by the trivial or not so trivial matters. 

For me, I had to for the last Two years, maybe more-get through the crap!  There were good times and bad, very good times and yes very bad.  Many times crying myself to sleep, many times happy to wake up to enjoy a bright and sunny day and sunny disposition.  I know with all my knowing that IF I did not turn to Positivity without it being a HOAX or a mainstream classification...Then I would NOT BE HERE TODAY.  IF I let myself wallow in my pity, allow myself to dislike who I am because of blunders or mistakes...If I allowed any more of the crap without using my positive tool light to guide me..THEN I WOULD NOT COME OUT THE OTHER SIDE.

It is not about one day believing, one day not, one minute smiling the next scowling every where you go...although it does take practice.  I had to walk the walk not just talk the talk of positivity.  I truly believe if we all did this, time and time again turning to our power within to Think, Be and Act in desirable light for you, and FOR HIM...then There would be much less upset, much less emotional scars, much less depression, much less suicide...Dare I say?

If you had the chance to save someone out of misery, talk them out of a dump and into a positive walking being, able to handle any hiccup along the way, Would you be that positive force to help someone out of dread and to shed light onto an unhappy situation?

We had a rough go for a few years, I knew about my faith in positivity...I had to use it, I had to teach it to my loved one, I had to fight everyday to see the hour of positive faith and to use that faith to lean on by any means...I did not say, "Oh I am positive in a fluff"..I HAD TO BE that POSITIVE change within ME, to allow the process of HEALING to begin for US.  I had to look forward to everyday, no matter what happened, I had to believe that great things are here for me now and that I am blessed, I had to THINK good, FEEL GOOD and BE GOOD.  Of course I am human and to err is HUMAN, I know though that my TRUE unrelenting force of positivity that I had to create and lay groundwork from years ago had to be cultivated, I had to shed that light onto my days of adversity to allow my loved one and I to survive.

AND WE PREVAILED!

One may say, "OH ya just think positive"  such a catch phrase now.  That is just to simple, it is NOT a phrase or a word to be said loosely.  IT is a production created within to be HAPPY, Choosing to BE happy, choosing to think of the many great blessings everyday...Even if one is at their utmost worse...EVEN if the most horrific things are going on around or within you.  POSITIVITY is NOT a catch phrase...POSITIVITY can SAVE YOUR LIFE and YOUR SOUL and MANY OTHERS!! USE it with care.