Winning, NOT everything

About heart, winning is not everything.  It is how one feels about the measures that is within the winning or loosing and all things in between.  How does one person feel about the win or loose.  Did they do something in the loss even if it is a win, and of course do something in the win.  All being equal as we are.  I would play ball growing up and pick out all the highlights throughout the game, even if it was the other team. That is how staying positive is.   "Oh this was a great play, that was a great throw", I would not personally even care if we had a loss, it was just nice to get out.  I would hate the rain, if it was raining...WOW...did I have a fit, in a way.  Here I sit today with my Son at 6am watching a thunder storm, the door open, sitting at the door, open...a great way to spend a morning. a small one storm, he falls fast asleep in my arms.  Courageously. 

To me, for my self personally speaking.  It was great to watch it rain and poor.  A year ago this week, Tristan passed away a year ago and although I love life, life is the most difficult thing in the whole wide world.  Yes whole wide world, to bring the positive out in yourself and others, even almost any circumstance...is a win for just about everyone.  As long as the positive is drawn out of the all.   Thinking your own thoughts about perspective is important, to challenge those parts of you that come up now and again and through the years is very difficult.  To stay true to yourself is the very most important thing.  If cheated then up to the person to determine the right or wrong abot it.  Personally speaking, I have thought of the positives my whole life, learned to each step of the way.  That is the only way in some cases.  What is ever at the core of your heart is the truest positive and everyone has a heart.