A Positive Equation

A positive frame of mind is a learned trait, as to is a negative frame of mind.  We are born with the sense of all curiosities in life.  We ask questions, we look at the world around us in delight, we begin to make friends and steer our course in life.  When we ask questions we listen to the answers of our parents, then family, and peers.  Then there comes a time to make our own decisions, to form answers and to draw on our own conclusions.  The mind is a wonderful thing, it is a muscle that needs tender workings in all aspects and in all capacities.  It is a great thing to work and rework your mind, learning and relearning.  What goes in, comes out.  It forms opinions and has unique thoughts, it stretches also onto others where what you say will penetrate into the mind of all who draw near. Your mind can reminisce about days long gone, and holds tight to the best memories in your life.  It makes decisions daily.  When you are able to "choose" what goes in and are taking in only the positive, and then breathing out that positive is a case in learning.

It is an equation.  Having a good sense of math skills is much like being a positive being.  Learning math whether it was easy for you or not, is just as difficult as learning to become positive.  It is a daily practice and the more you do practice it the easier it becomes.  The equation is simple, but is also tested and re-tested in order for you to come up with the proper formation and as well, the most correct answer for a happy life.  Sometimes, like math, you make a mistake where the answer does not seem to be correct.  Quickly, we go over that question, until the final answer is shown to us using that tested formula.  We re-worked that question, until we got to our answer.  The positivity in our lives is everywhere, it can be seen easily.  As soon as we think, feel and act in a positive manner-the simpler our lives become.  The simpler our families lives become, the happier we are and then it radiates outwardly.  It is a test in skills of humanity and compassion, love and abundance, faith and free will.  Sometimes though, we slip up, where it is not as simple as 1+1=2  or 2+2=4.  Sometimes we step away from ourselves and come up with a conclusion that does not fit, it just does not sit well.  We say something ill hearted, we scowl at something because we seem to be in a bad mood.  Then we start anew and re-work the equation, using the formula of Thinking Positive, Feeling Positive and Behaving in a positive light.  Then yes, we past-and will be retested in due time.

Positivity, is contagious and can be spread in rapid amounts of growth.  The old saying; if you cant say anything nice don't say it at all-can be used fabulously in this formula.  It is a choice and I would say a must in order to live a vibrant and healthy minded life.  Just like using your math skills is a daily occurance at the grocery store or when filling up on gas.  So to is using your positivity skills.  It will reflect on your home, who you accompany yourself with, and everyone who ever crosses your path.  Then once the formula is mastered you become a radiant light of beauty that can be seen vividly.  If your in a rotten mood which we all get into feelings of a rut sometimes, reflect on the beauty all around you, the little things, the big things and try to re-evaluate your thoughts.  Your thoughts are the threshold to a fruitful of happiness. 

Smile, even through the pain, cry through the pain, feel the pain, love the pain then say thank you, you can leave now and move on and away from the pain as you drop it by your side leaving it behind, to never to hurt you again.  As harbouring this pain, can unleash a creature that can be stirred into a tyrant of trouble.  I had this happen a few times, then when nothing was left-all I could do was look in the mirror as I was the ONLY one left.  The pain and anger caused so much negativity that everyone HAD to walk away.  I had to learn to let go of many traumas, drama's and mud puddles, I had to look within, knowing that holding on to the negativity was cause for upset in others-and I was going nowhere.  I had to re-evaluate, re-focus, and re-vamp my whole attitude in to a Positive Equation.